DEAR SUSAN: You told a reader that a man who gives up on her because she doesn't want casual sex is "no loss." I agree, but please tell women that a man who doesn't make passes can be worthwhile. I'm someone who doesn't rush to the bedroom. Women seem to accept that, but some of them act much more distant when they find out that a man (me) didn't "light her fire" the first time. Whatever happened to patience? — Jeffrey H., Long Island, N.Y.

DEAR JEFFREY: It go ...

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