Dear John: "Porter" really likes me. I am 16, but we both have been thinking about sex because our relationship is so deep. We really think this is love. But I hesitate because he'd be "my first." We want to see if it is love by having sex. What do you think of this? — Ready for IT, in Decatur, Ga.

Dear Ready for IT: Having sex with someone does not mean that you will love him, or that he will love you. Should you take that step before adulthood, and the relat ...

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