Posted by: laura w
Comment: #1
Mon Jun 23, 2008 8:17 PM
Dear Jeff J. ,
I don't beleive that your happiness lies in working with a personal trainer . Nor do I believe that your happiness is back in the 1960s . It's really about going outside your comfort zone and getting to know yourself , deeply and truly.
Why lament that petite or average size women are not interested in you romantically ? Are you interested in the many women in your age group who might be 20 or 30 pounds overweight instead of 20 or 30 pounds underweight ? As much as you can't help your weight problem , they can't either. Most people usually do the best they can with what they've got. If they are still not perfect , well then they are just human. As a women just over 50 , I can tell you that the physical challenges in this part of my life are almost equal to those in the childbearing years. It's just a matter of perspective. The ability to see another human being for who they are is what I am after in my own evolution . How about you? Don't give up ... it's not fair to you or anyone else you are here to touch , love, comfort and enrich.
Laura W. , L.I. , N.Y.
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Posted by: Jenny
Comment: #2
Sat Jun 21, 2008 12:29 PM
This message is for Jeff J. from Long Island. Don't be too quick to give up on your quest, because I'm from Long Island also. I"m approaching my 61st year as well and would love t o meet a mature man who would like someone to share friendly conversation and compaionship. I'm a woman who loves life and peace. If you think you might like to e-mail me, my address is grelove@optonline.net.
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