DEAR SUSAN: Generally, your advice seems to be full of wisdom and insight. I just wonder, though, whether you had considered a different angle to the reader's extreme neediness in a recent column. Is it possible this man only wants someone who doesn't want him? And when someone actually does want him, he changes his mind. I think a lot of people fit that description. My first husband certainly did. Our marriage felt like a yo-yo. I always had to attract someone else before he'd come running b ...

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