If he loses her trust, he will have to pay dearly for it. According to a recent Mars Venus/Redbook poll of 1,655 women, 66 percent of participants would not forgive him for an affair. Another 3 percent would stay angry over money matters, while 5 percent won't forgive any slight. In fact, only 26 percent of women allow the men in their lives to get away with anything.

Full results are shown below. To take part in this week's Mars Venus/Redbook poll, log on to: www.redbookmag.com

Can you forgive him?

Not for an affair. 66 percent

Not for money matters. 3 percent

Not for anything. 5 percent

Yes, for anything. 26 percent

Total Votes: 1,655

NOTE: Because poll percentages are rounded, total values may not work out to 100 percent. Poll results are not scientific and reflect only the opinions of those users who choose to participate.

John Gray is the author of "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus." If you have a question, write to John in care of this newspaper or by e-mail at: www.marsvenus.com. All questions are kept anonymous and will be paraphrased. To find out more about John Gray and read features by other Creators Syndicate writers and cartoonists, visit the Creators Syndicate website at www.creators.com.

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